I spent a few years as a full time bartender at a restaurant and enjoyed the job at the time. I look back now on my time there and reflect on the similarities between being a bartender and now being a network marketer.
When I first started bartending, I never regularly had a full bar of patrons. I waited on people as they came in the door and decided to sit at the bar, because they wanted to sit at the bar and not necessarily because I was bartending.
Over time I developed my skills as a bartender and more importantly, I got to know my guests on a more personal level. I began developing relationships with them. Soon they weren’t necessarily coming to our restaurant because our beer tasted any different than anywhere else, but rather because they wanted to go somewhere where the bartender knew them and could anticipate their needs.
As the years went by, I began to make much more money because of the “regulars” I enjoyed waiting on at my bar. Many of them had their beers waiting on the bar as they walked through the front door and they appreciated that, they saw a value in it.
There was one particular group of “regulars” that came in on Tuesday nights, every week, and I enjoyed waiting on them. After I left they went back for a couple of weeks, but then decided not to continue going there. They now go to the bar across the street. I know this because, to this day, and I left over 5 years ago, I still occassionally run into a couple of them. They still go out on Tuesday nights and they still go to the competition across the street…and they still invite me to meet them over there for a drink 
I don’t say all of this to imply that I think I was such a wonderful bartender. My bartending skills are certainly not the point of this post.
I say this because I am trying to demonstrate the simplicity of attraction marketing. Brand yourself and provide value to your target market and you will be successful, regardless of what you are selling.
Remember, there are thousands of distributors in your network marketing company and you are all offering the same products/business opportunity. The only difference in what you are selling is YOU. You must become so valuable to your target market that they will want to join YOU, not your competition.
Give them a reason to join your team. Provide them value and they will look to you as a leader. Anticipate their needs and they will appreciate that. Make yourself so “magnetic” that they will look nowhere else but to you when they are ready to start their own business!
Attraction marketing is not flashy, it’s simple, but sometimes it’s the simple things that we all tend to overcomplicate in life 
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